Why thinking positive is bad for you
After reading this, you will stop try thinking positively…but
Have you heard of this?
“Everything starts with the mind.
If you can think positively, you’ll create a positive life.”
quote
it doesn’t work for everyone.
While this is true in certain cases,
Why? It is simple…
Many people who want to change their lives often start chanting this so-called “positive vibe.” However, deep down, they remain negative.
So, what happens when they try to repeat these positive words?
A battle begins within.
Take a look at this picture.

Did you know only 5%
of our brain is conscious?
That means the other
95% is like a “submarine subconscious,”
working under the surface,
mostly out of sight. So,
let’s say your conscious
mind—your 5%—starts saying
things like,
“Hey, I want to be happy,
peaceful, grateful, and abundant! ”
But your subconscious, that
95% powerhouse, might
respond with something like,
“Seriously? That’s the weirdest
request you’ve made! Why do
we need to be more positive?
That’s totally unfamiliar.
Stick to what we know
—negative thoughts. Anything
else, and you’ll feel our resistance!”
This is why, when you try to
“think positive,” it can sometimes
feel like pushing against
a wall. It’s like your conscious
mind and subconscious are
in a tug-of-war. The more you
try to think positively, the
more resistance you feel
because 95% of your mind is
still stuck in its old patterns.
So, does that mean
we can’t actually be
more positive? Are we
stuck fighting our subconscious?
(am I destined to be brokie forever??)
No way! You CAN change!
And it’s all about helping
your subconscious get
comfortable with positivity.
Real positivity isn’t about
forcing happy thoughts
—it’s about gradually reprogramming
your subconscious so that
it starts to lean toward
positivity on its own. Imagine
if that 95% was naturally tuned
to a positive outlook. No more
internal tug-of-war! Instead,
positivity would become your
default, making it so much
easier to feel happy, peaceful,
and abundant. So how do
you do this? The key is
patience and small, consistent steps.
Things like thinking how
great is your God is, surrender,
and ask forgiveness to
your God can gently nudge
your subconscious in a
positive direction. Bit by bit,
you’re helping it viewing
positivity as something familiar.
It takes time, but it’s worth it.
You’ll feel your inner
state shift, and suddenly,
you won’t need to “think positive”
so hard. It’ll just be there,
like a quiet strength.
So keep at it—positive
change is totally within reach,
and you’ve got everything
you need to make it happen!
p/s: as for me, I ask directly
to God to give me
those qualities… and
it comes in very Fast!!
(trully Fast!! Why? He Is the Most Giving Right?)
Conclusion
True, lasting positivity isn’t about forcing yourself to feel good all the time—it’s about making peace with your subconscious, slowly teaching it that positivity is safe, familiar, and beneficial. Through small, consistent actions, you can shift even the deepest patterns, so your subconscious starts to naturally align with a positive, abundant mindset. And if you’re willing, turning to God for guidance and support can bring even greater clarity and strength.
You Can Do iT nOW!
- Speak to God or Pray for Guidance
Whether it’s gratitude, peace, or abundance you desire, ask God directly. Seek His guidance to grow these qualities, believing in His ability to guide and support you. - Reflect on God’s Greatness
Remind yourself of God’s love, mercy, and wisdom. This can bring a sense of peace and trust, shifting your subconscious to feel safe and open to positive change. - Be Patient and Consistent
Change takes time. Stick with these steps consistently, even if it feels slow. Over time, you’ll notice positive shifts that feel real and lasting.
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